4 / Personality Diagram
There is a saying, “Birds of a feather flock together.” I was always curious about my relationships with the people around me and for a long time I asked myself the following question: Do I really hang out with people who are similar to me and do I like them just because we are similar?
I always wondered what kind of people I was attracted to. I also wondered what, for most people, are the factors that contribute to the feeling that “they are my type of people.” For example, factors such as inborn traits, background and childhood experiences, general disposition, tastes, or values.
When we look at our various relationships, we may find that their degree of intimacy is not directly proportional to the time we have known each other. This raises the following question: What is the difference between people I like and people I can't get close to even after plenty of time?
I always wondered what kind of people I was attracted to. I also wondered what, for most people, are the factors that contribute to the feeling that “they are my type of people.” For example, factors such as inborn traits, background and childhood experiences, general disposition, tastes, or values.
When we look at our various relationships, we may find that their degree of intimacy is not directly proportional to the time we have known each other. This raises the following question: What is the difference between people I like and people I can't get close to even after plenty of time?
Survey
I created a questionnaire and invited various people with whom I have some kind of relationship to complete it. The questions were designed to delicately investigate the various factors that might influence my relationship with each person. Those factors fell broadly into the categories of inborn traits, aspects of temperament, inherent tastes, and acquired tastes. Through the questionnaire, I tried to discover my own biases in choosing the people I prefer and to visualize it as data that could be understood at a glance.
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Name
Age
Gender
Phone Number
Do you agree to the provision of personal information in this survey?
Education Level
Sibling status
Martial status
Child Status
Number of moves before legally adult
Height range
Foot size range
Eye sight(Left)
Eye sight(Right)
Thumb flexibility
Body flexibility
I have bad body oder
I tend to be good in sports
I am more physically/externally gifted than others
IQ score
When I do shower, I..
When I do not feel good, I take pills right away
Regarding health problems, I...
The most sensitive sense
What is my 'gut' sensitivity?
MBTI
When I empathize with someone else's experience, I..
I am emotional and have a lot of ups and downs
I have an active personality.
When there is a disagreement with somebody about something I know very well, I would
In conversation, I am..
My way of expressing love
When I watch a sad movie, I get very absorbed or tearful. (EQ)
The reason why I am obsessed with music
I tend to tell to myself things like 'Let's go for it' when I wake up in the morning or 'It's okay, it'll be
How many times have I been told I am naive/innocent?
Am I patient?
You accidentally spilled a glass of water while eating with group of high school alumni, and a friend who is
When I get mad at my best friend, I..
When a sincere personal relationship becomes uncomfortable, in terms of making and breaking up, I..
What do you think about people you see through social media?
I am choosy to make friends
I have high self-esteem
If I make a sacrifice, I can save 10 lives of the general public. my choice is
Dog vs Cat
My pet is
Exercises I do a lot
Drinking frequency
Reason for drinking or teetotal (can be duplicated)
Smoking
Fashion style when meeting friends
number of luxury items owned
I received a birthday present from a celebrity friend. If you are asked to freely choose anything within the
Power of First impressions when judging people
I prefer traveling to
Balance Game 01 - If you had to choose for the next year
Balance Game 02 - Which one is better?
Balance Game 03 - Choose less painful (sleep less/eat less)
Balance Game 04 - For a whole night of a party, I would rather sit next to
Balance Game 05 - Lottery
Balance Game 06 - I would rather live forever in
Balance Game 07 - I got one more chance to be reborn. I would choose
Balance Game 08 - I went out to eat after a long time. I would go to
Balance Game 09 - I went on a trip. If you have to pick one restaurant
Balance Game 10 - I went on a trip to Europe. My ideal type of trip is
Things I can't eat (can be duplicated)
Favorite style of food
When I choose the menu, I prefer
What do you prefer in food?
Age
Gender
Phone Number
Do you agree to the provision of personal information in this survey?
Education Level
Sibling status
Martial status
Child Status
Number of moves before legally adult
Height range
Foot size range
Eye sight(Left)
Eye sight(Right)
Thumb flexibility
Body flexibility
I have bad body oder
I tend to be good in sports
I am more physically/externally gifted than others
IQ score
When I do shower, I..
When I do not feel good, I take pills right away
Regarding health problems, I...
The most sensitive sense
What is my 'gut' sensitivity?
MBTI
When I empathize with someone else's experience, I..
I am emotional and have a lot of ups and downs
I have an active personality.
When there is a disagreement with somebody about something I know very well, I would
In conversation, I am..
My way of expressing love
When I watch a sad movie, I get very absorbed or tearful. (EQ)
The reason why I am obsessed with music
I tend to tell to myself things like 'Let's go for it' when I wake up in the morning or 'It's okay, it'll be
How many times have I been told I am naive/innocent?
Am I patient?
You accidentally spilled a glass of water while eating with group of high school alumni, and a friend who is
When I get mad at my best friend, I..
When a sincere personal relationship becomes uncomfortable, in terms of making and breaking up, I..
What do you think about people you see through social media?
I am choosy to make friends
I have high self-esteem
If I make a sacrifice, I can save 10 lives of the general public. my choice is
Dog vs Cat
My pet is
Exercises I do a lot
Drinking frequency
Reason for drinking or teetotal (can be duplicated)
Smoking
Fashion style when meeting friends
number of luxury items owned
I received a birthday present from a celebrity friend. If you are asked to freely choose anything within the
Power of First impressions when judging people
I prefer traveling to
Balance Game 01 - If you had to choose for the next year
Balance Game 02 - Which one is better?
Balance Game 03 - Choose less painful (sleep less/eat less)
Balance Game 04 - For a whole night of a party, I would rather sit next to
Balance Game 05 - Lottery
Balance Game 06 - I would rather live forever in
Balance Game 07 - I got one more chance to be reborn. I would choose
Balance Game 08 - I went out to eat after a long time. I would go to
Balance Game 09 - I went on a trip. If you have to pick one restaurant
Balance Game 10 - I went on a trip to Europe. My ideal type of trip is
Things I can't eat (can be duplicated)
Favorite style of food
When I choose the menu, I prefer
What do you prefer in food?
Survey Result Visualization
Group A
Group B
Group C
Final Work
Group A : People close to me
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Group B : People remain only acquaintances to me
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Group C : People that I do sports with
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